Some of the most heartbreaking experiences I’ve had in my life were due to letting opportunities pass by.
Particularly when I realise how profoundly different was the life I was creating by not saying “YES” to what I really wanted, even when it was RIGHT THERE, within my reach, offering itself to me!
I passed by it 😳
Why would I do that?! Why would I pass by the very things I desire?
Protection.
I was afraid to reach out for what I desired and not get it in the end.
My fear of it potentially not working out was keeping me from going after it in the first place.
Which only meant that I was definitely not getting what I desired…
If you don’t “act YES” to what you desire, don’t be surprised that you don’t have what you desire.
Thankfully, I had a couple of new experiences in the last months that I decided to make use of, to train myself to a new attitude.
Then last week, I had an inner dialogue between the part of me who is afraid to pursue or accept things I desire and the part who is not afraid; who is open to the experiences that have been closed to me… because I have been closed to them.
I did it for the first time and I got the result I wanted immediately.
And I’m very ready for re-patterning across all areas of my life.
I’m done knowing certain things are not only available to me, but meant for me, and I’m not living them because I hold back.
Turning this to you…
When are you feeling “Yes!” but acting “No”?
I’m choosing to share this with you today to inspire your own reflection and shift.
Pause for a moment and think about the things you desire, but don’t pursue. Even though they’re right there, waiting for you to act.
Because if you don’t act, they’ll pass…
And you’ll have missed them.
They won't come back and ask: “Are you sure you don’t want me?”
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How does it feel to imagine a life full of seeing the things you desire all around you, but not having them? And not because you can’t, but because you never reach out for them.
We can miss so much in life if we keep passing by the things we desire.
There’s no good reason to create a life filled with regrets for missed opportunities.
Reaching out for what you want is your part in deciding what happens in your life (and what doesn’t).
So here is what I’m suggesting:
Pay attention to the opportunities that present themselves to you today. What if you didn’t let them pass by this time?
Klára
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Our fear of rejection might really be an even deeper hidden fear of success. The “no” allows us to go back within where it’s safe. The “yes” exposes us to all the possibilities, some of them scary, of that success